CompliMents

[yeh ben, dat's how u spell it... =P... in da bible its heaps more complicated... so i guess his mum made his life easier =P. i'll show u him one day. cheers, hui]

Had an interesting thought today. a lot more interesting than yesterday's =P. well, it's not everyday dat you get compliments from the people you meet. but then again, not everyone is willing to give out compliments or critisms. is dis a form of jealousy in terms of giving compliments? seeing someone else have the things u think is great, so "when you can't get da grapes, you say they're sour"?

Appreciation is needed so much more in our developed world. we take a lot of things for granted... including compliments. like my fren yan, (soz, but u're a perfect example.. even though i noe ur joking... =P) she always waves off everything i comment, even when i mean it. it can be hurtful sometimes, to the person giving. i wave the hurts off too, as i noe dat she meant well. it's another type of vibe thing... where u can't help feeling the feelings, even when u noe dats not wat the person is vibing out.

i think giving compliments or critisms (not harsh ones of course) is a type of gift to everyone everyday. i still need to learn to appreciate the messages dat i get from people too... as i also wave off a lot... sometimes not even meaning the objection. onli say wat you mean, unless u're joking around, which can mean a lot to the person you're talking to.

compliments come from the heart, and the heart doesn't lie... the intellectual mind does.

d^-^b

PS enoch is still so adorable.